[R18] Addicted to pampering you: The mysterious wife of the military master – “Addicted to Pampering You: The Military Master’s Mysterious Wife” Chapter 152 [English]

154. Is it important to be well-matched? 3

When Fang Chengzhi was young, he went to the countryside to become an educated youth. At that time, many children from the city went to the countryside to become educated youth. Boys and girls spent time together day and night, and many of them developed feelings. Many educated youths who went to the countryside met “true love” and many got married. However, when they later returned to the city, more divorced. Why?

It’s not because the feelings are gone, but because the differences in living habits and ideas are too great. When the passion passes, love is replaced more by firewood, oil and salt. Living together, the collision and running-in of living habits occupy a large part of the marriage life.Partly, because of different childhood experiences and living environments, resulting in different living habits and concepts, conflicts will inevitably arise during the process of getting along. Once this conflict cannot be resolved and two people quarrel, they can reconcile once, but it doesn’t matter twice. So what about three times, five times, and ten times?No amount of emotions can withstand the consumption of a whole day of quarrels, and many people come to an end because of this.

Fang Chengzhi had seen these with his own eyes, and he didn’t want to see his precious daughter take detours.

Although there is some feudal stubbornness about being well-matched, it is not unreasonable. If two people with similar living standards live together, the friction will indeed be much less than those whose conditions are too different. Especially what our family is facing now, Fang Tong’s conditions are much better than the other party.

“Tongtong, dad has seen many cases of divorce due to minor frictions and conflicts. You are dad’s daughter, and dad doesn’t want you to take detours.”

Fang Chengzhi spoke earnestly, Fang Tong remained silent, then looked at his father and said, “Dad, I admit that what you said makes sense, but when there is a conflict, we can communicate. We have to sit down and communicate carefully. If there is any problem that cannot be solved.”

“Tongtong, are your parents still going to harm you? Mom doesn’t mean that the other person’s family must be rich. Even if the other person’s family conditions are a little better, and the gap between our family and our family is not too big, my mother will not object. But my mother does not agree with this condition of our family.”

Fang Tong was anxious, “Mom, you have never met he, how can you deny him so easily? It’s unfair to him.”

“Fairness? What is fairness? Tongtong, is it because we protect you so well in daily life that you are so naive? There is no such thing as fairness in this world. If he can buy a house of his own in the capital right away, my mother will have no problem.”

“Mom, you just dislike the poor and love the rich,” Fang Tong shouted at Fu Fanghua with an ugly face.Such a mother feels strange to her, “Dad, look at Mom, how can a human being be like this?”

Fang Chengzhi looked at his daughter’s ugly face, then at the anger in his wife’s eyes, and his expression became serious, “Tongtong, you can’t talk to your mother like that. Let’s not talk about whether what your mother said is right or not. First of all, there is a problem with your attitude. Is this your attitude towards your elders?”

Fang Tong’s face froze, and he realized that he had gone too far just now. His mother loved him so much, but he yelled at her. Thinking of this, he felt very guilty and lowered his head to admit his mistake, “Mom, I’m sorry.”

Fu Fanghua was not happy, but what could his daughter do? He sighed, “Tongtong, don’t blame your mother for being unreasonable. Mom and dad can support you in everything, but this matter is related to your future happiness. Mom will never allow you to act nonsense. Be good.Listen to your mother, find a time to speak clearly to the boy, and then meet your Uncle Li’s son. It doesn’t matter if you don’t like your Uncle Li’s son. Mom knows many children of her colleagues, and some of them are very good…”

“Mom, stop talking.” Fang Tong interrupted Fu Fanghua, “I won’t break up with him. I (love) him and he (loves) me. I will marry him after graduation.”

“Nonsense!” Fu Fanghua scolded angrily, looking at her incompetent daughter, “Fang Tong, I said if I don’t agree, I don’t agree. If you want to marry him, that’s fine. You are no longer the daughter of our Fang family.”

Fang Tong looked at Fu Fanghua in disbelief. Fang Chengzhi quickly stood up and comforted his angry wife, “My daughter is still young. If we have anything to say, let’s tell her carefully and she will understand.”

“Tell me well. I didn’t tell her well, but did she listen? She always wants to get married. Have you ever asked someone if they are willing to marry you? Has your family accepted you? Did your father and I agree?”

Fang Tong has been an obedient child since she was a child, especially after her husband was transferred to work in Linshi a few years ago. Mother and daughter depended on each other more often. Mother and daughter have a very good relationship. Fang Tong has always been her caring little cotton-padded jacket. Fu Fanghua loves Fang Tong more than anyone else. Fang Tong was really angry today, otherwise she wouldn’t have been able to say such things.

Looking at her daughter’s unbelievable pale face, Fu Fanghua felt a little regretful that she had spoken harshly. She wanted to say something, but she didn’t.

Fang Chengzhi patted his wife’s hand and walked to his daughter, “Tongtong, your mother was angry just now. She said it a bit harshly, but it’s not entirely wrong. That boy may be really good, and maybe in a few years he will be able to buy a house in the capital with his own ability, but now, it is definitely not possible. If you follow heIf we are together, you will have to save money to buy a house in the first few years, and your life will not be as comfortable as it is now, just like you.”

Fang Chengzhi carefully analyzed the pros and cons with his daughter, “You are the only child of me and your mother. Although our family’s (r) life is not as good as ours, it is more than enough. You have never suffered much since you were a child, and you have never had to worry about money. If you want to buy something in your daily life, you don’t have to worry about money. Both your parents haveI’ll buy it for you.But if you plan to be with that boy, you won’t have what you have now. You need to make money to support yourself. Because you want to buy a house, you have to put up with anything you like. Others can travel and eat big meals during the holidays.Have you ever thought about this?”

Fang Tong was silent. She really had not thought about this. She thought that with Ding Minghui, his family would not be able to afford a house and he would rent a house. But what her father said was something she had never thought of.

“My parents only have one child, and everything in the family is for you. You can say that our family will buy a house when you get married. My parents will not have any objection to this. Our family also has the strength, but can his family agree? Even if his family agrees, what does the boy think? People will say that he is a phoenix man. He may not mind at first, but what happens after a long time? Tongtong, people’s hearts will change.”