[R18] Addicted to pampering you: The mysterious wife of the military master – “Addicted to Pampering You: The Military Master’s Mysterious Wife” Chapter 151 [English]

153.Is it important to be well-matched 2

It is said that a good daughter is better than her mother, and the converse is also true. The look on Fang Tong’s mother’s face showed what she was thinking, “Actually, we have been dating for several years, but I was afraid that you would say that I am not doing my job properly, so I didn’t dare to tell you.”

Fu Fanghua smiled, “Hey, mom is not the kind of parent with feudal ideas. It’s just a love affair. There’s nothing I can’t say.”

Fang Tong felt relieved when he saw that his mother really had no intention of blaming her.

Fang Chengzhi didn’t say anything about his daughter’s relationship. He just said, “Tongtong, you should tell your father that you have a boyfriend as soon as possible, otherwise your father will not agree to Uncle Li. You said that this matter is causing trouble now. Uncle Li thought that his father was deliberately playing tricks on me.”

Fang Tong was also a little apologetic and explained in a low voice, “Actually, I wanted to find a chance to tell you and dad recently, and then show him to you, but before I could say anything, you just…”

Fang Chengzhi also knew that he was at fault in this matter, and said nothing more, “Forget it, your uncle Li will call him later and let his father give him an explanation. I think your uncle Li will understand. But we can’t do this again.”

Fang Tong blinked and smiled, “I will definitely not do this again.”

“Tongtong, what does that boy do?” Fu Fanghua asked.

“He and I go to the same school and are in the same class as me. They just have different majors. He majored in computer science and is now working at the Narada Group. After graduating next year, he can officially sign a contract with Narada.”

Fu Fanghua nodded. Being able to get into University B at least proves that his brain is not bad, his academic qualifications are acceptable, and he can still stay in Junlan, which shows that his ability is also good. After looking slightly satisfied, he continued to ask, “What does he look like?”

“Hey, he is so tall and handsome. Standing with your daughter, they are like a golden boy and a beautiful girl.” Fang Tong’s eyes were filled with smiles.

Fu Fanghua smiled and glared at her, “How can a girl praise herself so much? She’s so shameless.”

Fang Chengzhi also smiled. He didn’t care much about the boy’s appearance. If he could be liked by his discerning daughter, his appearance would definitely be the same. The two could get along for several years, and he was probably a good character.

“Invite him to my house as a guest another day.” Fang Chengzhi said.

Fang Tong nodded, “Okay.” The school has already been on holiday, but Ding Minghui is currently interning, and the company does not have such an early holiday, so he is still in the capital, thinking of calling him tomorrow to ask when he is free. After all, it is better to strike while the iron is hot.

Fu Fanghua, on the other hand, thought of another question, “Tongtong, what does his family do? Are they from the capital?”

Fang Tong said, “He is from Province G and his family is in the countryside.”

The smile on Fu Fanghua’s face faded, and she looked at Fang Chengzhi and asked, “What do his parents do?”

Fang Tong smiled, “Mom, you are investigating someone’s household registration.”

Fu Fanghua smiled and said, “Mom, this is just a random question. When we marry a daughter, we must understand what she does.”

“His parents are ordinary farmers. How many acres of land are there at home? It’s those acres of land that he can go to B University on.” Fang Tong said, Ding Minghui told her these things. Since her mother asked, she told her. In Fang Tong’s view, this is not a secret that cannot be told.

The smile on Fu Fanghua’s face disappeared, but Fang Tong did not notice this, “Mom and Dad, when are you free recently? I will bring the person back for you to keep an eye on.”

Fu Fanghua had already put down her chopsticks and said slowly, “Tongtong, as a young girl, it doesn’t matter if you fall in love a few more times, but if you want to talk about marriage, you still need to be well-matched. Even if they are not well-matched, the conditions of the two families cannot be too different, otherwise there will be trouble after marriage.”

Although Fang Chengzhi didn’t say anything, he obviously agreed with his wife’s words. He didn’t expect his daughter to marry into a wealthy family, but at least the family must have a house and a car. Although his family was not rich, the conditions at home were not bad. His daughter had grown up being pampered by the hes, and she had never suffered any grievances in terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation.

And according to what the daughter said, the boy’s family is from a rural area, and even his parents’ hard-earned savings for college tuition. With such family conditions, no matter how outstanding his ability is, can he buy a house in a short period of time in a place like Beijing where land is so expensive?If he can’t buy a house, should he let his precious daughter live in a rented house with him and have to take the bus and subway?

Even if Fang Tong himself is willing, we as parents are not willing.

Fang Tong was a little dumbfounded by her parents’ suddenly different attitudes. She looked at her mother and said, “Mom, what age are we in now? How can we talk about being well-matched?”

These are all traditional and old ideas. Now is the era of free love, and there are still naked marriages.

Fang Tong’s idea is very simple. In her eyes, marriage requires marrying love, rather than finding someone you don’t love to live for bread. Such a life is not a marriage, but a grave.And she would rather starve to death than live a married life without emotion.

Seeing that Fang Tong didn’t take it seriously, Fu Fanghua patiently explained, “Tongtong, you are still young now, so maybe you don’t understand. You will understand after you get married. Falling in love is a matter between two people, as long as two people like each other. But marriage is not love. Marriage is the union of two families. It is a matter of two families. Without talking about anything else, my mother will ask you. In the future, if you marry he, you will have to buy a house. With his family’s situation, can he afford a house in the capital?”

“He can’t afford it now, but that doesn’t mean he won’t be able to afford it in the future. His work ability is very strong, and he has already been appreciated by his boss. After graduation, he will be able to buy a house in the capital in a few years.” Fang Tong tried hard to help Ding Minghui put in a good word in front of his parents.

But Fu Fanghua didn’t really believe it, “How many years is it? Three years, five years, or ten years? Tongtong, you are a girl, how many years of youth do you have to wait for?”

“Then we can get married first and then buy a house. The conditions are a little worse at the beginning. We can rent someone else’s house to live in. What does it matter?”

How naive.Fu Fanghua thought, glanced at her husband, and signaled him to speak.

Fang Chengzhi received his wife’s look, thought for a while, and said, “Tongtong, my parents are not the kind of people who dislike the poor and love the rich. It’s just that your mother is right. Marriage is not a matter between the two of you. If you just fall in love, then your parents will never object, but marriage is definitely not suitable based on the conditions of our family. What your mother said is a good match, not only the financial conditions of the family, but more importantly, the ideological concepts.”

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What do you think about the issue of being equally matched?